Bullying: Area High Schoolers Weigh In

With news of , some Clifton high schoolers are giving their two cents about bullying.

We asked the Student Government Association at to tell us their thoughts on bullying and what we found was surprising. These high schoolers were mature enough to not only understand the difference between a bully and a person lashing out, but also that there are deeper issues at root for why children become bullies. There was some disaccord with how bullying translates onto the sports field, but overall they were very clear that bullying is not something they ever condone.

Patch: What do you think causes bullying, what makes the bully do or say hurtful things?
Centreville SGA: Among the causes could be low self-esteem, insecurity, jealously, and problems at home.

P: What are the best ways to stop bullying?
CSGA: The best ways to stop bullying are through peer mediation, counseling, and talking to an adult about the problem.  Walk away from it, get involved in other activities.

P: Will bullying ever really end?
CSGA: We believe that insecurity is a cause of bullying.  As long as people experience insecurity, they will be at risk to pick on others.

P: What is the difference between bullying and just saying something mean? Are all mean comments bullying?
CSGA: Bullying happens repeatedly, whereas saying something mean is more of an occasional thing. Not all mean comments are bullying, some can be criticism.

P: Do you think parents, teachers, or administrators sometimes go overboard with who is being a bully or do they let too many things slide?
CSGA: They let many things slide. Students sometimes feel uncomfortable talking to certain teachers.

P: What would you like to see happen in your school regarding bullying?
CSGA: Bullies should not be singled out, but they should be aware of the consequences of their actions, and the consequences should be more strict, like expulsion for repeat offenders.

There was some disagreement about how bullying in sports is identified as some students said that it was the same as in school and some said it was different on the playing field. Many of the football players added they could handle bullying better than most other students and, depending on the situation, coaches can get heated and yell, but it’s all just part of the game. However, they did all agree it is unacceptable for a coach to repeatedly single out a player.